Understanding Sexual Sadness

When intimacy reaches its peak and resolution, you may be left wondering “Is this all?” or worse—feeling terribly sad and alone. If you have experienced this low after the high of sexual intimacy, you are certainly not alone.

THE SWEET SPOT OF RELATIONSHIPS:

The 'sweet spot' in relationship is not indifferent to the sweet spot in life. You feel enlivened during the day, happy to hang out and explore. You keep investing in your personal interests. And you invest in each other.You don't survive, you thrive. Let's explore more in this discussion.

We want the spark back! 

This challenge has baffled couples, and most try ways to 'get it back', with short term results. The trap is diminishing intimacy over time by becoming complacent and not giving each other priority. The result feeling that being platonic is as good as it's going to get. There is a way - and I show you how!

Do You Choose The Solo or Yo-Yo Relationship?

Far too many people allow themselves to fall into what I call the yo-yo relationship out of weakness, suitability or neediness. This may come across as harsh. But when a relationship sticks on the recycle button life can feel cumbersome and tough.

The Cocktail of Attraction

Our hormonal system is responsible for creating rewarding sensual and spirit experiences. And in the same vain, the act of sex can be a double-edged sword when we are navigating our emotions and desires. How can the act of lovemaking give people experiences of deep euphoric bliss and at other times, feel disjointed, empty and unfulfilled?

Biting The Golden Bullet

Have you ever had that moment where all you wanted was the earth to open up and swallow you? Oh yeh, and add to that all memory of what just occurred get erased?

Is Procrastination Killing Your Desire

Observing my procrastination has helped me share the insights with my fertility and intimacy clients. Both of these realms are renowned for ‘putting things off’.